Uriel Oputa, a popular star from the reality TV show Big Brother Naija, recently shared her thoughts on a noticeable trend involving Igbo men. She expressed her concern about the increasing number of Igbo men marrying women who are significantly older than they are—women old enough to be their mothers in some cases. Uriel highlighted that this pattern has become more common in recent years and is raising eyebrows within the community.
According to her, the motivation behind these relationships seems to be shifting away from love and companionship. Instead, many of these men appear to be marrying older women primarily to obtain foreign passports and the opportunities that come with them. Uriel’s observations suggest that securing immigration benefits may be a stronger driving force than genuine romantic interest or emotional connection in these unions.
This trend is seen as troubling by some because it affects traditional perceptions of marriage and relationships within the Igbo culture. Typically, Igbo marriages emphasize love, respect, and family compatibility. Uriel’s comments serve as a reminder to reflect on the reasons behind the choices people make in relationships, urging her Igbo brothers to consider sincerity and authenticity over convenience or material gain.
By speaking out, Uriel hopes to raise awareness about this issue and encourage more genuine connections in relationships rather than transactions motivated by passports and other external benefits.
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